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You are a nice person who always tries to do what others expect, and while you are, do anything to please them, never ask them anything for yourself, and make sure not to hurt other people's feelings, and not to lose your temper, and when others attack you unreasonably, you remain prudent and calm , And you are always ready to advise people, and when you feel embarrassed by a friend’s method with you, you never think about embarrassing him, and you never speak about what causes your grief to others, you are a really nice person.
The writer contemplated the effect of the gentle personality on himself, and with a new perception he began to define his most defeatist behaviors: He usually said yes to people when he should say no to them, and he was constantly isolating himself from others by not telling them what he wanted, and by pretending to be calm while he was angry, and By lying when he fears hurting their feelings, and again and again he was discouraged from his intention to hold himself responsible for caring about them even when he is unable.
The writer realized that this behavior (by meeting with a group of friends in the presence of a famous psychiatrist to think about the way they perform as individuals in the auxiliary professions) which is a hasty way to save others who have problems, is a devastating way for us and them. When we approach the people who are important to us, and that we feel satisfied when we try to help others, we pride ourselves on good intentions, yet whenever we talk and act in the gentle ways we have learned, which almost everyone accepts as normal, we have a feeling of fatigue, frustration, and lack of confidence in ourselves.
In this book the author refers to these behaviors as errors. He studies the things that kind people do in good faith and in a usual way they have, but they adversely affect their relationships, and take away the joy from their lives. And steal precious time and energy. The writer summed up these behaviors in nine mistakes with counterproductive results, and they deserve our attention because with a little thought and effort we can stop making them.
Also, the author does not differentiate between the occurrence of women and men in these errors. The writer understands that both es deal with social situations in a different way from the opposite , and from a different perspective, and that one of the es may be more inclined to do one of these mistakes, and that women experience more social pressure than men to be nice, and that most people think that men They do not possess the kindness of women the same degree as women, but whether you are a kind man, or a kind woman you are likely to repeat making these nine mistakes to the detriment of you.

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