الناس لا يفهمونك كما ينبغي لهم أن يفعلوا؟ 1.2 Apk

The author of the book: Dr. Sherif Arafa
Book section: Human Development
Language of the book: Arabic
Book publisher: term
Number of pages: 70 pages

 If you feel that you are right .. This does not necessarily mean that you are about: You are a smart person, otherwise you would not be attracted by a title, and when you were interested in reading its summary on the back cover! do you think that your colleagues at work do not understand you? life partner? your boss? Your friends? Your family? Your clients? Do you suffer from a problem that people do not understand you as they should?


Tips for talking with confidence in front of people A group of advice and methods that enhance a person’s self-confidence while talking with people are mentioned in the field of human development. Among these tips are the following: Choosing the topic of the conversation: If a person wants to be a confident speaker of himself, he must specify the topic he will present , And to choose it intelligently, a topic that he can talk about easily with information and circumstances. Planning for the conversation: If a person sets a plan for his conversation and clearly shows the beginning, the body and the end, he knows his way in the right way, and determines how to reach his goal of success, as is the case for listeners, then they are with the speaker step by step to the end, without going astray. One of the benefits of the speaker making a plan for him is completing the ideas of the topic he presented, so he will not finish his speech or conclude it before he says all his ideas. Mastering the language of dialogue: language is of great importance in a person’s life, because 80% of his day is based on the spoken word with others, as it is issued in many ways and methods, such as interpretation or persuasion, issuing orders, directing advice, and other ways of communicating verbally with a person. Others, and the more proficient a person is in using language, or expressing what he thinks clearly and precisely, the more successful and influential he is in others. Tact in conversation: Tact depends on the selection of the appropriate subject in the conversation, as drawing the attention of the other party to the conversation depends primarily on the extent of its interest in the topic that was raised in that session. It is also tactful to choose the correct beginning for dialogue, and avoid the usual words, such as asking about the case, for example, the other party is waiting for something exciting and this exciting thing can be known if the speaker knows the interests of the listener and his inclinations, and the things he prefers to talk to others. Control the conduct of conversations: A person can increase his ability to influence others and control the conversation and direct its course in his favor, if he can understand human behavior, and discover the reasons behind the words and actions of others, and if he can analyze these actions and words, to know the motivations that drive them to do so all These things make a person more in control of the course of the conversation, more tactful and able to speak in front of others with confidence.


Some of the tips contained in the application:
• The simplest face for people you gain their affection, and because they have words they love you, and they humble them for you.
• One of the greatest gates of happiness is the supplication of the parents.
• Do not be affected by the ugly words and bad words that are said about you as it hurts his saying and does not harm you.
• Look at who is a dunk in the body, image, money, home, job, and offspring to know that you are indirectly adjusting the feeling.
Thus, the voluntary path to joy, if our automatic joy is lost, is to speak as if we are already happy. If this behavior could not make us feel happy, nothing could make us so.
To feel courage, act as brave. Use your whole will to do it, and it is likely that the wave of courage will replace the wave of fear.
Stand straight and look into the eyes of the crowd, do not mess with your jacket buttons nervously, play with your rosary, or rub your hands.
Fourth: Practice! training! training:
The last point we mention here is very important, you may have forgotten everything you have read so far, but remember this: The first and last effective way to generate self-confidence in public speaking is to stand up and speak. The whole thing is reduced to the basic word: practice! Without it you will not reach anything.
Do you want to get rid of the fear of the audience? Let's see what are its causes. Professor Robinson says in his book Making the Mind: “Fear is caused by ignorance and uncertainty.” In other words: It is the result of a lack of self-confidence.
What causes this? It is the result of not knowing what you really want and not knowing what you want because of the lack of experience. When you have a proven track record, your fears fade and melt just as the night fog melts under the glow of the sun.